Saturday, January 24, 2009

PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP VALUES

Own your own relationship-
You are fully accountable  for your relationship. You can never again believe you're a martyr suffering in your relationship because of an unworthy partner.

Accept the risk of vulnerability-
Do not let fear run your life. Wanting, reaching out and letting yourself hope makes you vulnerable. At least by putting yourself on the line, you have the chance of getting what they want, as opposed to hurting and not getting what you want

Accept your partner- 
If your partner experiences the spirit of acceptance, then it is most likely he/she will find you approachable

Focus on Friendship-
You have to take a step back from the problems and pain of your intimate interactions and focus on your partners positive qualities. Turn back the clock and focus on what it was that started the friendship and turned it into an intimate relationship

Promote your partner's self-esteem-
You must bring the spirit of acceptance into affirmative, interaction action. Find the courage and creativity to promote your partner's self-esteem, even when you feel compelled to be critical

Make yourself happy instead of right-
Start evaluating the things that you do in the relationship based on whether those thoughts, feelings and actions are working

Put motion into your emotion-
You must turn the concept of love into positive behavior. You must require yourself and your relationship to be truly better

Live Happy Love

xoxo RitzyNina

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